Lapho uzobona umelaphi

Ukungabi nenzalo yisimo sezempilo esingathinta zonke izici zempilo yomuntu. Kungathinta indlela ozizwa ngayo ngawe, ubudlelwano bakho nomlingani wakho nabanye, kanye nombono wakho jikelele ngempilo. Ukube ubuhlale ucabanga ukuthi ukukhulelwa kuzofika kalula lapho ukubhekana nokuxilongwa kwakho kungaba nzima kuwe. Iningi labantu elibhekene nokwelashwa kokuzala lingazuza ekusekelweni okuhlinzekwa ngumndeni, abangane, abanakekeli bezokwelapha, nabeluleki abangochwepheshe.
 
Imininingwane elandelayo kufanele ikusize unqume ukuthi ngabe udinga usizo losizo ekuphatheni ukucindezelwa okungokomzwelo okuhambisana nokuzala. 

Ungafisa ukucabanga ngokwelulekwa uma uzizwa ucindezelekile, ukhathazekile, wesaba, noma uxakeke kakhulu ngokungabi nenzalo yakho kangangokuba uzizwa kunzima ukujabulela impilo. Abantu abaningi ababhekene nokwelashwa kokuzala bazizwa sengathi abakwazi ukucabanga nganoma yini enye. Ngesikhathi sokwelashwa kwe-IVF kunezigaba eziningi okufanele zinqotshwe futhi ngasinye siletha isethi yaso sokwesaba; ngizoba nezintambo ezanele, ingabe isifiso sizophumelela, amaqanda ami azokhuleliswa ngempumelelo, sizoba nemibungu esezingeni esizoyidlulisa - futhi ngemuva kwakho konke lokho, kunamasonto amabili okulindwe ukubanga nawo ukuthola ukuthi ukhulelwe yini. Lesi sikhathi samasonto amane singagcwala imizwa enamandla kakhulu yama-rollercoaster okungafanele ithathwe kancane.

Ukwelulekwa ngokwengqondo kuyasiza kakhulu kulabo abanomuzwa wokuthi badinga ukuphenya futhi baxoxe ngezinketho zabo. Ukubhekana nethuba lokusebenzisa abanikeli bamaqanda noma besidoda, noma umama wesivumelwano kungaba inselele enkulu futhi kungalindelekile futhi ukwenza izinqumo kungaba nzima kakhulu lapho uzizwa ukhathazekile ngokomzwelo. Ukukhuluma ngezinketho zakho nochwepheshe kungakusiza ukuthi uthathe izinqumo ezinolwazi futhi ezinengqondo kusuka endaweni enhle futhi kukunikeze ukuzethemba okudingayo ukuze uqhubeke ngezinyathelo ezilandelayo zokuba ngumzali.

Izimpawu ongazizuza ngokululekwa ngochwepheshe zingafaka:

  • Ukugxila njalo ngokuzala kwakho
  • Ukulahleka kwesithakazelo emisebenzini esejwayelekile kanye nobudlelwano, noma ukungezwani emshadweni
  • Imizwa ephikelelayo yokudabuka, umuzwa wecala, noma wokuzibona ungelutho
  • Ukulangana nokukhathazeka
  • Ukuhlukaniswa komphakathi
  • Ukwanda kokushintsha kwesimo 
  • Ukudangala (noma imicabango ngokuzibulala noma ukufa)
  • Ukunyuka kokusetshenziswa kotshwala noma izidakamizwa
  • Ukudideka ngezinketho zokwelashwa noma lapho ungaqiniseki ukuthi wenzeni
  • Uma kucatshangelwa ukuzalwa komuntu wesithathu (iqanda elinikelayo, isidoda esinikelayo, imibungu yabanikelayo, ubumbano)

Umeluleki oqeqeshiwe angakufundisa amakhono okubhekana namasu wokuphelisa ngethemba okunye kokudangala noma ukukhathazeka okuhambisana nokwelashwa kokuzala. Umeluleki wakho angakusiza futhi ukuthi uhlele izindlela ongakukhetha kuzo zikusize uthathe izinqumo ezinolwazi ngokusekelwe kulokho ongakhetha ukwelashwa okungakufaka, kufaka phakathi ukucindezela kwezezimali nangokomzwelo kwalokhu okukhethwayo. 

UMandy Rodrigues isazi sethu sezengqondo esihlala khona siyatholakala ngokubonisana kwangasese. Ucingo + 27 (11) 463 2244.

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