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Ukungacoceki yimeko yezonyango eyaziwayo ukuba ichukumisa yonke inkalo yobomi. Ukusuka kwindlela oziva ngayo malunga nolwalamano lwakho neqabane lakho kunye nabanye, kwimbono yakho ngokubanzi ngobomi, ukuxilongwa kokungakhulelwa kunokuba nzulu. Ukungachumi kunokubangela uxinzelelo ngakumbi kuba kubangela ukungaqiniseki okukhulu kunye nozinzo ngokweemvakalelo kubomi bemihla ngemihla abatshatileyo.

Iimpendulo zeemvakalelo kukungachumi zintsokothile kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ziqine kakhulu zinokubonakala ngathi ziyongamela. Kubalulekile ukwamkela ukuba ezi mvakalelo ziqhelekileyo. Ngomntu ngamnye kunye neqabane labo, inokuba yingxaki yobomi ebonisa isongelo kumathemba abo kunye namaphupha abo okufumana usapho. Uxilongo lokungakwazi ukuzala kukothuka kwaye ekuqaleni lunokuphikwa. Akukho ndlela 'ilungileyo' yokuphatha, xa ujongene neendaba ezihlasimlis 'umzimba, kodwa kukho ezinye iimvakalelo ezixhaphakileyo ezininzi izibini ezitshatileyo, kubandakanya ilahleko, umona, ukukhanyela, ihlazo, ukuba yedwa, nomsindo kunye nokudandatheka.

Eyona nto imangalisayo njengoko imeko yakho inokubonakala ngathi kukho iindlela zokunciphisa ixhala lakho. Ukujamelana akulula kwaye ngenxa yokuba iimpendulo kwiimvakalelo zokungachumi zintsonkothile kwaye zanda ixesha elide, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba wena neqabane lakho ninako ukujongana ngokwahlukileyo, nivakalise iimvakalelo ngokwahlukeneyo nangamaxesha ahlukeneyo. Oku kulandelayo zizicwangciso ezithile zokuhlangabezana nokukunceda ukuba ugxile kwaye ujongane nako konke ekufuneka ulwe nakho, ngelixa uzisa umbono ozolileyo ebomini bakho.

  • Yamkele indlela oziva ngayo. Kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba le nto uziva iyinto eqhelekileyo. Ukuchongwa kokungachumi kunye neenyanga ezilandelayo zovavanyo kunye neenkqubo kunokuba kukudinwa ngokwasemoyeni, ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwezezimali. Ukungabikho kolawulo onokuthi uvakalelwe kukuziva kunganyamezeleki. Ukwamkela ukuba kulungile ukuziva ulusizi sisiqalo esihle. 
  • Vakalisa iimvakalelo zakho. Okukhona uziveza ngokwakho kokukhona kunokuba lula. Chaza amagama, iinyembezi, okanye ubhale iimvakalelo zakho phantsi.
  • Funa iingcebiso nenkxaso. Njengokuba ujongana nefuthe elinokubakho lokungachumi ebomini bakho kuya kunceda ukuba ube nenkxaso yenkxaso eyayixabisayo into ojamelana nayo kwaye inokumamela kwaye iqonde uloyiko lwakho kunye neenkxalabo zakho. Umcebisi ngokuzala ungoyena mthombo ubalaseleyo ekuncedeni ukuba uqonde ulwazi kunye nefuthe loku okunalo kuwe, ukulubeka kwimeko yobomi bakho kunye nobudlelwane, kunye nokukunceda ukuba uphuhlise iindlela ezifanelekileyo zokulwa. Umcebisi uya kukwazisa ukuba asinguwe wedwa ojamelana nengxaki yobomi.
  • Vumela ukuba ulilele iphupha lakho. Ngokwesiqhelo xa sibuhlungu abanye bayakhona, ukuqinisekisa iimvakalelo zethu kunye nokuqinisekisa ukuzixabisa kwethu okuqhubekayo. Kuya kufuneka uchaze ngentlungu yakho efihliweyo ukuba kubalulekile ukuba uqinisekiswe ngabanye. Kuba intlungu engasonjululwanga ingangunobangela ophambili woxinzelelo, kuya kufuneka udlule kwixesha lokulila ukuze uphinde uzive ungcono.
  • Nxibelelana neqabane lakho. Ukungachumi kunye nonyango olubandakanyekayo lunokuthatha umthwalo omkhulu emtshatweni, oko kudla ngokubangela ingqumbo engathethekiyo okanye iimvakalelo zokungafaneleki, uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo ngokwesondo. Inokudala okanye ikhulise ukungavisisani emtshatweni. Wena neqabane lakho ninokuhlangabezana ngokwahlukileyo nangamaxesha ahlukeneyo. Fumana ixesha lokuthetha ngayo kwaye uthathe isigqibo sokuba ngaba yimpixano phakathi kobudlelwane bakho okanye ukuba yenziwe ngamava akho okuzala. Ukuba uziva ukuba uxinzelelo lolu hambo lubangela umsantsa kubudlelwane bakho, kungalixesha lokufuna uncedo kwiingcali. Umcebisi malunga nokungachumi unokukunceda ukuba uphinde unyawo lwakho njengesibini kwaye uncede niqhubele phambili kwakhona kunye. Ukuba ungasinda kule ngxaki kunye, unokujongana nayo nantoni na.
  • Qokelela ulwazi. Funda iincwadi, thetha nogqirha wakho kunye nomcebisi, ujoyine iqela lenkxaso kwaye uthethe nabanye kuhambo olufanayo. Ukuhlala unolwazi nokwazi ezinye izinto onokuzenza kuya kukunceda ukunciphisa uxinzelelo lokungaqiniseki. Ulwazi ludla ngokunciphisa uloyiko kunye noxinzelelo olunegalelo kuxinzelelo. Ziqhelanise neemvavanyo kunye neenkqubo oya kuba nazo. Ukuba unemibuzo, nceda uqiniseke ukuba ubuza ingcali okanye umongikazi wakho ukuba achaze nantoni na ongayiqondiyo. Siyazi ukuba ufumana ulwazi oluninzi kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kunokubonakala ngathi kuyabhida. Khumbula ukuba silapha ukunceda.
  • Cela uncedo. Fumana umntu omthembileyo uze umcele akuncede. Oko kunokuthetha nantoni na ekuphulaphuleni ukukhwela ukuya kwiindawo zokuya kwezonyango, ukufowunelwa ezinzulwini zobusuku okanye isidlo sangokuhlwa kunye. Uvelwano kunye nokuchaneka komhlobo olungileyo kunokukunceda uqonde kwaye ujongane neemvakalelo ezinzulu ezinxulumene nokungachumi. Ukomelela kunye nembono kunokufunyanwa ngokwabelana ngamava akho kunye neemvakalelo zakho kwabanye abakwimeko efanayo. Kuyanceda ukwazi ukuba awuwedwa.
  • Zikhathalele. Yiba nobubele kwaye ulunge kuwe. Sukuyityeshela impilo yakho iphela; Qiniseka ukuba utya ukutya okufanelekileyo, ulolonge umzimba uze ulale ngokwaneleyo. Zizonwabise ngamanye amaxesha. Zinike imvume yokuba uthathe ikhefu, uzikhathalele. Fumana ixesha lokonwaba, ufunde iincwadi, uzenzele izinto ezintle, uthenge izinto, udibane nabantu abatsha, uthathe iiklasi ezinomdla.
  • Fundisa abo babalulekileyo kuwe. Abahlobo kunye namalungu osapho bahlala bebonakala bengenalusini kwaye bethetha okanye besenza izinto ngokungazi, ukungonwabi, okanye iimvakalelo zokungancedi. Bafundise xa womelele ngokwaneleyo. Abo basondele kuwe banokuzama ukunika iingcebiso ezingacelwanga nezingamkelekanga. Eyona nto ingcono onokuyenza kule meko kukuchaza ukuba uneengcebiso ezaneleyo kwaye ufuna umntu omamele kwaye azame ukuqonda. 
  • Gcina isondo kumnandi. Ukwabelana ngesondo kunokukhawuleza kube njengomsebenzi xa kufuneka ukwenzile, kunokuba yindlela entle yokubonisa uthando omnye komnye. Zama ukugcina ixesha lakho elisondeleyo linothando kwaye linomdla. Khanyisa amakhandlela, cwangcisa umculo omnandi, nibonisane ngomzimba- nantoni na ekwenza wonwabe. 
  • Yithi hayi kwimisebenzi egxile kubantwana. Unelungelo lokuzinika imvume yokwala izimemo kwieshawa zabantwana, ubhaptizo, amatheko okuzalwa njl. Njl. Ukuthintela ukwenzakalisa iimvakalelo zakhe nabani na qiniseka ukuthumela isipho esifana nesatifikethi sesipho-oku kuyakukugcina ekubeni uthathe uhambo olubuhlungu kwivenkile yosana.
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  • Khangela iindlela zokunciphisa uxinzelelo. Ungalibali malunga nemisebenzi kunye nezinto ozithandayo owakha wazenza ezakunceda ukuba unciphise uxinzelelo. Oku kunokuba yincwadi yokubhala, ukufunda, ukuzivocavoca umzimba, unyango lwe-spa, ukuya kumabhayisikobho-nantoni na ekunceda ukuba ukhululeke kwaye uphumule kancinci.
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